Male victims of Sexual abuse

Male victims of Sexual abuse
Male victims of Sexual abuse

Problems that men face have been ignored by the society from ancient times and they are still being ignored today. Even though human rights are a topic in vogue, society still does not consider Men rights as part of Human rights. Today when punishment for rape of women is equivalent to that of murder or sometimes even more stringent than that for murder still we see that punishment for rape of man by women can hardly be called strict as seen from the blog on rape of men by woman. Similarly sexual harassment of men is also so much ignored that men facing such harassment have very few options left to them. The law of sexual assault IPC 354 also does not consider a male to be victim. So a sexually abused men cannot report the crime by women and has no source of help. Most of them choose the worst option of either quietly bearing the harassment and living a life of sex slave or committing suicide. This happens because of the biased attitude of society that feels sexual stimulus to a man from woman is trophy. It simply refuses to believe that a male can be harassed sexually, without realizing the fact that unwelcome sexual stimulus is as disturbing to man as to women.

Male reporter sexually abused by women
Male reporter sexually abused by women

Just for the reference of my readers I searched for cases of women molesting men of various age and occupation. To my surprise I found that women even in doctors profession are exploiting men. One man killed himself, and exposed woman doctor in his suicide note “The doctor administered me sedatives and drugs excessively. The doctor sexually exploited me after medication. I am not able to fight her. So I am taking this step. – http://articles.timesofindia.indiatimes.com/2012-09-12/chennai/33788188_1_woman-doctor-suicide-note-section

It’s not just men in family of common men who do not get justice if they are harassed by women but even cops do not get protection and justice if they are sexually assaulted by women. We see example for this in Europe that calls itself modern but when an Italian lady Nina De Chiffre was found sexually molesting male police officer named Salvatore Piccione, she was not even arrested immediately. How can such sick society call itself modern if they can’t give justice even to their cops who are male and sexually harassed by female? I am yet to hear the news of her arrest and conviction. http://www.independent.co.uk/news/world/europe/kiss-and-yell-italian-protester-charged-with-sexual-assault-after-kissing-riot-police-officer-9007265.html

A mother and daughter in Arizona are accused of sexually abusing a teenage boy for three years and police say the pair did it without knowing about each other’s relationship with him.

https://www.nydailynews.com/news/national/mother-daughter-accused-molesting-teen-boy-years-police-article-1.471301

Warris, 40, is charged with involuntary deviate sexual intercourse with a person under 16 years old, statutory sexual assault, corruption of minors and indecent assault.

https://www.mcall.com/news/breaking/mc-allentown-trial-for-woman-accused-of-molesting-teen-20160308-story.html

The principal of St Xavier’s School held on a sexual assault charge.

https://www.thehindu.com/news/cities/mumbai/principal-of-st-xaviers-school-held-on-sexual-assault-charge/article7642836.ece

Bombay HC “Why no separate scheme for boys has been formulated?” Incidents of sexual assault on boys are on the rise and there is a need to formulate a scheme for rehabilitation of the victims.

https://www.outlookindia.com/newswire/story/frame-compensation-scheme-for-boy-victims-of-sexual-assault-hc/911315

Jail for sex with stepson: A WOMAN whose illicit relationship with her partner’s teenage son was caught.

http://bit.ly/13Ysnxx

Woman, Daughter booked for sexual assault on a minor over 3 months.

https://www.news18.com/amp/news/india/woman-daughter-booked-for-sexual-assault-on-17-year-old-boy-over-3-months-in-himachal-1795743.html

Woman arrested for sexual abuse of a teenaged boy. The woman tried to lodge a fake complaint with police about a boy physically assaulting her, on the investigation, the police found that it was a minor boy and the lady was in a live-in relationship with him.

https://m.timesofindia.com/city/kochi/woman-arrested-for-sexual-abuse-of-teenaged-boy/amp_articleshow/65003356.cms

Andhra Pradesh: Woman arrested for sexually assaulting a 14-year-old boy.

https://mumbaimirror.indiatimes.com/news/india/andhra-pradesh-woman-arrested-for-sexually-assaulting-14-year-old-boy/articleshow/64525066.cms

The silence of male child sexual abuse in India: Qualitative analysis of barriers for seeking psychiatric help in a multidisciplinary unit in a general hospital. Patriarchy is oppressing male children and acts as a barrier to seek psychiatric help in collaborative child response unit.

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5547862/

Why we must talk about boys who survive commercial sexual exploitation too. Minor becomes masseurs from a very young age, i.e. when they were 12 or 13 years old and some are forced and face gang rape as well.

WCD Ministry is not working towards curtailing these activities as it involves boys, they are only worried and care for a girl child. Like men, even the male child face discrimination from society and the government.

https://www.thenewsminute.com/article/why-we-must-talk-about-boys-who-survive-commercial-sexual-exploitation-too-79540

A 33-year-old woman teacher has been arrested by police for sexually assaulting a 15-year-old boy who was her student for more than 3 months.

https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/chandigarh/woman-teacher-33-held-for-sex-with-student-15/articleshow/64310927.cms?from=mdr

A minor called childline to report that he was sexually harassed by a 45-year-old woman. The woman told police that the boy is trying to avenge cop against us. When the victim is female and alleged perpetrator is male we don’t see name withheld due to ongoing investigation. Double Standards.

https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/chennai/sexually-harassed-by-woman-45-says-boy-17/articleshow/64008113.cms?from=mdr

Boys are being sexually abused more than girls. The police become active when there is an incident of sexual exploitation with girls, but it does not happen in the case of boys.

https://navbharattimes.indiatimes.com/state/punjab-and-haryana/gurgaon/boys-getting-sexually-harassed-more-than-girls-in-haryana/articleshow/63884431.cms

My girlfriend sexually abused me by forcing me to have sex with me. Now the police are in the confusion stage as to what action to be taken as there are no laws against sexual abuse by women/female. It is time the GOI should define laws as gender-neutral.

https://www.esakal.com/vidarbha/sexual-abuse-girlfriend-109275

Denied Sex, Woman Pulled Gun on Boyfriend. Cops found the woman to be ‘Primary aggressor’

http://thesmokinggun.com/documents/sex/gun-threat-over-spurned-sexual-advances-786451

An attractive young lady intends to have sex with a player on each of the 17 hockey teams. She texts nudes of herself with an invite for sex. Two 19-year-old males face felony charges including sex with a minor. Who’s the sexual predator?

http://bismarcktribune.com/news/state-and-regional/defense-in-hockey-sex-video-case-says–year-old/article_3de30903-dda6-530d-babf-4d4e42b42009.html

Girl stalks boy on social media. Cyber cell officials of city crime branch received a complaint from a 27-year-old man alleging harassment by a girl on social media. Such crimes by girls and women are not new only that the society and mainly the legal system does not see them as crimes just for the simple reason that they are females.

https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/ahmedabad/Girl-stalks-boy-on-social-media-cops-get-complaint/articleshow/44904400.cms

Woman tutor, sexually exploits boy threatens to file Fake Cases of rape on his father Woman booked in POSCO act for sexually exploiting the minor boy in Ludhiana but her name not revealed, unlike Asaram Y?

http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/ludhiana/Woman-booked-for-sexually-exploiting-minor-boy-in-Ludhiana/articleshow/44878264.cms

On mere complaint, three juvenile boys were suspended for a month from school. The girl complaint against them alleging that they were harassing her, one of them consumed poison and committed suicide at his residence. In another incidence in the same area (Varanasi) a tube-well operator with Varanasi Development Authority hanged himself with the ceiling of his room, according to reports his wife had thrashed him.

In both the above incidents the females were never questioned by the authorities, their words were taken as Gospel truth.

https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/varanasi/Love-birds-end-their-fairy-tale-in-divine-presence/articleshow/44818237.cms?from=mdr

My wife wants sex all the time! Help. When asked for a piece of advice from a Relationship Expert, he received a shocking response. Excerpts from response “The flesh is willing even though the spirit is not! Meanwhile, instead of condemning this attitude and behaviour of hers, it would be better to let her discover all the joys and pleasure of physical gratification”.

Now, when a similar help is raised by a woman, the entire society and so-called Relationship experts will voice hatred message against male gender and will term them as ‘Rapist’. Indian Judiciary will call it a ‘Marital-Rape’.

https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/life-style/relationships/ask-the-expert/My-wife-wants-sex-all-the-time-Help/articleshow/4758493.cms

Single Mother Families are Hotbed of Child Abuse: Research. Numerous studies have found that children who do not live with both biological parents are far more likely to be sexually abused than their peers in traditional families.

http://www.fathers4equality-australia.org/fathers-rights/single-mother-families-are-hotbed-of-child-abuse-research/

An 11-year-old boy fathered a child after sex with a school friend’s 36-year-old mother. The case has caused counsellors working in the area of child sexual abuse to highlight the lack of attention given to women as potential offenders and it has also highlighted the disparity in the law of rape, which makes it impossible for a woman to be accused of the crime.

https://www.nzherald.co.nz/nz/news/article.cfm?c_id=1&objectid=10890674

Along with cops even their family are victims of such abuse example a cop’s son Rahul Khandare aged 25, committed suicide and left five-page suicide note that he took the extreme step due to sexual harassment by a woman. His sexual harassment started when Khandare was working with a garment store. There the woman Veera Kalra aged 42 was his senior. She started forcing him into a sexual relationship. He tried to avoid her still the lady did not stop harassing the boy and he felt so helpless that he committed suicide to escape the sexual harassment by woman. Even after his suicide the police did not act swiftly as male suicide hardly gets importance http://lifenstory.com/male_suicide_is_accident . So the youth’s relatives along with an NGO Oriental Human Rights Protection Forum staged a two-hour protest at Sadar police for the lack of action in the suicide and attempt to hush-up the case. The boy’s family had to meet senior police officers and use RTI act just to get the woman booked. Please note that the boy who died was son of a cop and his uncle was also a cop still he could not get justice, so imagine how hard it will be for a common man to get justice for their children against sexual harassment by woman. A senior cop acknowledged that sexual harassment of men is also a reality and they get many victims of this nature, but most of the times, the guys refrain from filing the FIR. Hence, the number of cases reported remains very less. http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/life-style/relationships/man-woman/Wake-up-to-the-woes-of-sexually-harassed-men/articleshow/20716412.cms

Denied Sex, Woman Pulled Gun on Boyfriend. Cops found the woman to be ‘Primary aggressor’ http://thesmokinggun.com/documents/sex/gun-threat-over-spurned-sexual-advances-786451

An attractive young lady intends to have sex with a player on each of the 17 hockey teams. She texts nudes of herself with an invite for sex. Two 19-year-old males face felony charges including sex with a minor. Who’s the sexual predator?  http://bismarcktribune.com/news/state-and-regional/defense-in-hockey-sex-video-case-says–year-old/article_3de30903-dda6-530d-babf-4d4e42b42009.html

Girl stalks boy on social media. Cyber cell officials of city crime branch received a complaint from 27-year-old man alleging harassment by a girl on social media. Such crimes by girls and women are not new only that the society and mainly the legal system does not see them as crimes just for the simple reason that they are females. https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/ahmedabad/Girl-stalks-boy-on-social-media-cops-get-complaint/articleshow/44904400.cms

Woman tutor, sexually exploit boy threatens to file Fake Cases of rape on his father Woman booked in POSCO act for sexually exploiting minor boy in Ludhiana but her name not revealed unlike Asaram Y? http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/ludhiana/Woman-booked-for-sexually-exploiting-minor-boy-in-Ludhiana/articleshow/44878264.cms

On mere complaint three juvenile boys were suspended for a month from school. The girl complaint against them alleging that they were harassing her, one of them consumed poison and committed suicide at his residence. In another incidence in same area (Varanasi) a tube-well operator with Varanasi Development Authority hanged himself with ceiling of his room, according to reports his wife had thrashed him.

In both the above incidents the females were never questioned by the authorities, their words were taken as Gospel truth.  https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/varanasi/Love-birds-end-their-fairy-tale-in-divine-presence/articleshow/44818237.cms?from=mdr

Men are reluctant to seek help from police as very few countries have laws to protect men. Even in those countries that have laws to protect men from sexual harassment the laws are so weak that the abusive woman hardly get punished hence the police can’t give sufficient help to the male victims as seen from the case of woman who sexually abused the young son of a family she boarded with, but still successfully avoided jail & fine. In fact it was highly surprising the judge himself tried to leave the lady with minimal punishment and he also concealed her identity, this will help the lady to easily get her next victim without anyone realizing that she could be a serial rapist. The lax laws and irrational attitude of judges suffering from white knight syndrome, who rarely punish such female molesters increases the confidence of the criminal woman to commit more such crimes. http://www.stuff.co.nz/national/crime/8852046/Home-D-for-womans-sex-abuse-of-boy-13

Even the Justice Department discovered the startling form of abuse in 2010, when it surveyed more than 9,000 youngsters living in juvenile halls and group homes. More than 10 percent of the respondents said they’d been sexually abused by staff and 92 percent said their abuser was female. Even after three years, the numbers haven’t changed much and women continue sexual harassment of men. http://www.propublica.org/article/boys-in-custody-and-the-women-who-abuse-them

Female molesters leave do not even spare kids, a 19-year-old domestic help Rina Sundar Bhegara was found sexually harassing her employer’s four year old son in Aundh. The mother of victim informed that her son complained about severe pain and bleeding in his private parts, he was rushed to a hospital. The doctor revealed shocking information that the child was sexually assaulted. Since the child was traumatized, he did not reveal who had done such things to him. After some days when his mother went home to do some work, she caught the lady maid red-handed. Her mouth was on his private parts. On this the toddler broke his silence he told his mother that the maid had done similar things in the past and would prick his private parts using pins. But even after being caught the rapist woman did not repent her crime instead became offensive, her aggression stemmed from the lack of laws to prevent sexual harassment by women as sexual harassment and rape laws in this country do not recognize male as victims hence such women do not get severe punishment. They easily get free to commit more crime. http://www.mid-day.com/news/2012/may/230512-Maid-booked-for-molesting-minor-son-of-employer.htm

More teenage boys reporting ‘forced’ sex by women in US, 95 percent said a female acquaintance was the aggressor. https://in.news.yahoo.com/more-teenage-boys-reporting-forced-sex-women-us-055804265.html

Very rarely Women abusers like Kelly Kay Turner get punished. She admitted photographing herself sexually abusing children an 18-month old girl and a young boy. http://billingsgazette.com/news/state-and-regional/wyoming/article_32252398-bd9f-5335-8d62-b7de5786c9fc.html#.UXshLE60pp4

Even companies that have strict sexual harassment policy to protect women from sexual harassment, rarely have such policy to stop women from sexually harassing others. In fact if man complains of sexual harassment by woman the company takes no action on the woman instead the man risks losing job as happened with IBM. We rarely have case like LensCrafters or the Cheese cake factory case where a male employee sexually harassed by female gets some justice. http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2011/06/20/lenscrafters-settles-fema_n_880709.html & http://www.californialaborlawattorney.com/male-sexual-harassment-in-the-workplace

Boy killed friend to end sexual exploitation http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/bhopal/Boy-murders-friend-to-end-sexual-exploitation/articleshow/20564607.cms  He took extreme step as India rape law do not protect male victim

Shows even females sexually abuse… protests please… http://www.hindustantimes.com/India-news/Gurgaon/Gurgaon-school-maids-sexually-abused-8-yr-old/Article1-1063204.aspx

Man reveals pain and shame of being sexually abused as a child by female family friend http://bit.ly/13ONwtK

If forcing any object in womens genital is rape than it should also be for male but People are not showing any concern for  Men like Mayur whose intestine was damaged due to sexual abuse http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/india/Robber-critical-after-Madhya-Pradesh-cops-ram-baton-into-rectum/articleshow/22130327.cms?intenttarget=no

Men too are victims of sexual harassment is now also accepted by some of the leading news paper like NBC http://www.nbcnews.com/id/19536167/ns/business-careers/t/male-sexual-harassment-not-joke/#.UuaTgKDhXbj

Male victims of rape, sexual abuse and depression: Breaking the silence on International Men’s Day http://www.independent.co.uk/voices/comment/male-victims-of-rape-sexual-abuse-and-depression-breaking-the-silence-on-international-mens-day-8949547.html

No protest if victim is male kid. The misandry spreading candle bearers are only interested in money http://www.patrika.com/news/be-suppressed-after-sexual-intercourse-throat/957495

Very few bodies take gender neutral initiative as taken by Ramjas College, Delhi University on Sexual Harassment. Students seeking admission here are required to submit a sexual harassment declaration form irrespective of their gender. http://zeenews.india.com/videos/no-to-sexual-harassment-in-du_21614.html  this policy is necessary in the time when women Don’t spare men &women to satisfy their lust as seen from the case where four girls sexually exploited hostel inmate for days, while woman staff supplied liquor to girls  http://daily.bhaskar.com/article-ht/UP-lucknow-four-girls-sexually-exploit-hostel-inmate-for-days-woman-staff-supply-li-4342804-PHO.html?seq=1

two girls tried to rape a auto driver
http://m.khabar.ibnlive.com/news/city-khabrain/delhi-safdarjung-enclave-auto-driver-mms-rape-crime-rajdhani-express-391260.html

Kidnapped minor boy forced to marry 26-year-old woman? – The Times of India on Mobile – http://m.timesofindia.com/city/hyderabad/Kidnapped-minor-boy-forced-to-marry-26-year-old-woman/articleshow/48105274.cms

Two women arrested for molesting a 6 year old girl  http://m.indiatoday.in/story/two-women-arrested-for-molesting-six-year-old-girl-in-gurgaon/1/272344.html

Sexual assault on men: Crime that is a reality  http://m.hindustantimes.com/analysis/sexual-assault-on-men-crime-that-is-a-reality/article1-1371605.aspx

Delhi University girl drags mom to court for sexual abuse – http://m.indiatoday.in/story/du-girl-drags-mom-to-court-for-sex-abuse/1/461527.html

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