Male’s have become so disposable for society that inadvertently suicide by a man is looked as something very trivial. Even when Suicide surpassed war as the military’s leading cause of death, I saw no programs by government to help men in distress http://www.usatoday.com/story/nation/2014/10/31/suicide-deaths-us-military-war-study/18261185
There are many instance where woman suicide are investigated to find if there is any male involved who could be cause of her unhappiness, woman worshiping has reached to such an extent that suicide by a woman is considered as murder by man. But if a male commits suicide it’s rarely investigated. Instead it is brushed under carpet and termed accident.
In simple terms
Male Suicide is equal to accident
Female Suicide is equal to Murder by Male
There is even a law in India IPC 304B which says that if a married woman dies within 7 years of marriage the husband and his family shall be deemed to have caused the death. (This law assumes female death even if by accident /suicide is equal to Murder by Male partner) This law is misused by the wife’s family to trouble the husband. This trend was observed by Additional Sessions Judge (ASJ) K S Pal he acquitted a man his brother and his wife of the charges of subjecting the woman to cruelty. Court observed that now-a-days, there is a growing tendency adopted by the parents of deceased married woman, who died in her matrimonial house within seven years of marriage due to any reason, to implicate the husband and his relatives by making false allegations of harassment on ground of dowry demands due to their anger and to take revenge. The court acquitted deceased Vinita’s husband Lalit Kumar, his father Soran Singh, mother Ram Murti of the charges of murder, harassment for dowry and destruction of evidence. Lalit’s brother Devender and his wife Urmila were acquitted of the charge of harassment. http://www.business-standard.com/article/pti-stories/husband-4-family-members-acquitted-in-dowry-harassment-case-113062800680_1.html On the other side there is no such provision for protecting a man. So if a married man dies even on the next day of the marriage no one will question the wife.
There are huge numbers of cases where the suicide of a man is brushed under the carpet showing it to be accident or farmer suicide. Hence lot of murderous & terrorizing wife force husband to commit suicide and get away without any problem. The bottom of this article shows the increase in suicides of male in India since 1964 to 2012.
A classic case demonstrating this attitude is of Prakash Patni, he hanged himself at his residence and had written a ‘suicide note’ in pencil on the wall of his home, implying that his wife, her mother and aunt were responsible for his death. He wrote, “Because of my wife and her mother Jaishree Kundani and (aunt) Mohini Kundani it is over. These 3 persons are the reason”. Police, however, register accidental death http://www.mumbaimirror.com/mumbai/crime/Chembur-man-blamed-wife-in-laws-in-suicide-note-on-bedroom-wall/articleshow/20339088.cms
Army men save civilians from various calamities but no one cares to save them from women made calamity. Society respects them only when they lay down their life for others. But never bothers when they are forced to commit suicide http://articles.timesofindia.indiatimes.com/2013-06-27/lucknow/40232003_1_electrical-mechanical-engineers-army-officer-commits-suicide-army-captain
Rejected by girl’s family, man ends life from sea link. A 28-year-old BPO employee ended his life by jumping off the Bandra-Worli sea link. This is the third suicide in last three months according to police. https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/mumbai/Rejected-by-girls-family-man-ends-life-from-sea-link/articleshow/16759592.cms?referral=PM
A very thoughtful article written by Deepika Bhardwaj JiahKhan Vs Men of India: A look into how police, media, judiciary differentiates between suicide of a man and a woman. http://xpressionsdpka.wordpress.com/2013/06/14/jiah-khan-vs-men-of-india/
Would anyone investigate this case as deeply as JiahKhan http://www.hindustantimes.com/India-news/Gurgaon/IAS-officer-falls-from-stairs-bleeds-to-death/Article1-1075364.aspx# IAS officer falls from stairs, bleeds to death How did he fall? No one at home? Troubled relationship with wife!”
Wife’s lust resulted in husband death. Man hangs self, blames wife and lover on video. The man claimed that his wife Anuradha would often run away with her paramour and both should be held responsible for his death.
This crime by the wife is even more heinous than committing rape.. she has not only killed her husband but also morally degraded the social and family values and a shame to women in general besides leaving a great psychological trauma in the minds of the children. There should be laws made against such crimes.
A man leaves a SUICIDE NOTE of being pushed to death by In-Laws. Court acquits wife n family. SHAME.
http://www.bhaskar.com/article-ht/MP-JBL-high-court-rejects-lawsuit-4471859-NOR.html
On Women’s Day, read the suicide note of a man. Avadhesh Yadav sacrificed his life to save his family from further humiliation. Had this been a married woman, this death would have been called “Dowry Death”. Had this been a married woman, the entire family of husband would have been thrown in jail, even if there was no suicide note. In this case, no one has been arrested yet. This is not just Avadhesh’s story. Several men are committing suicide because of false accusations.
https://www.news18.com/news/india/on-womens-day-read-the-suicide-note-of-a-man-971895.html
Man commits suicide, blames wife, in-laws in the note. Earlier, he had written a letter stating the same to police which stated that his wife, who allegedly fought with him over petty issues, was threatening to commit suicide and implicate him and his entire family in a false dowry case.
A 37-year-old man committed suicide in Dharavi. The man left a suicide note in which he held his wife and in-laws responsible for the extreme step, accusing them of being continually harassing him to get money and to usurp his ancestral property in Solapur.
A newly wedded bride decamped with household jewellery just three days after the marriage lead the groom to commit suicide. Interestingly the police registered it as accidental death; according to them they were clueless about the background and no one from the family has complained about the suicide. Whereas, the family members claim, submitting a written complaint to the police. How naïve the police department is!
Gurgaon businessman allegedly commits suicide, in-laws booked for harassment. “I was badly harassed by my wife and his family. I have no other option but to end my life,” the suicide note read.
Newlywed man hangs self. The police suspect that something transpired between the bride and groom on the wedding night that urged him to take the extreme step. No dowry death as he is a man; whereas every death of women is dowry death.
A 29-year-old man committed suicide due to false dowry harassment case filed by his wife and alliance. The man took this extreme step due to #LegalTerroism, the wife and her alliance should be arrested for murder.
Noida: Man hangs self after an argument with wife. Again a mother lost a son due to torture by the wife but feminist will consider his wife as a woman who needs help, not his mother.
Harassed by in-laws, man commits suicide in Delhi. Humiliated and depressed, the man hung himself, leaving behind a seven-page suicide note in which he has blamed his in-laws for driving him to take the extreme step. Why there is no protection for Men from domestic violence?
Man kills self over ‘failed love affair’. HEIGHTS of Misandry MAN kills self over failed Love Affair and people say: ” One less H-1B worker to USA” IRONIC.
‘Lack of protection laws leads more men to suicides’. As per the NCRB data, every 5 min on an average a man commits suicide in India and family disputes are the single largest reason for male suicides and yet negligible steps and lack of initiatives to curtail suicide. The male population does not have gender-neutral laws and distress centres to protect themselves.
Men outnumber women in suicides due to family crisis’. Contrary to public perception, family problems drive more men to take their lives than women. Nearly more than 92,000 men commit suicide yet men in our country get neither social nor legal support.
Assistant manager of Indian Oil committed suicide. According to family members, the relationship was not good with the wife, there was tension and was often under stress.
https://www.jagran.com/uttar-pradesh/lucknow-city-10445590.html
Chembur man blamed wife, in-laws in suicide note on bedroom wall but police, however, register accidental death as no one came forward to complain about in-laws. If a wife dies husband goes jail, But If Husband commits suicide saying wife responsible it is considered an accident.
No action is taken if a married man commits suicide blaming wife, in-laws but 304B on him if a wife dies. Hypocrites.
No one would try to find who she ran away with, No one would blame her for his SUICIDE, He was HUSBAND. Who damn cares!
http://www.ndtv.com/article/cities/metro-employee-commits-suicide-172840
IPC 497 does not punish a woman for Adultery. What option does a husband have? Man hangs himself.
http://ibnlive.in.com/news/delhi-man-kills-wife-over-illicit-affair-attempts-suicide/374390-3.html
Youth under the fear of getting booked on the charge of rape and getting blackmailed by his girlfriend repeatedly commits suicide.
Junior Clerk commits suicide due to harassment of female officer. Sangeeta Jaybhay (Senior Clerk) use to always harass Ashok and humiliate him in front of other female colleagues.
https://www.loksatta.com/maharashtra-news/senior-clerk-booked-for-junior-employee-sucide-1669693/
Ahmedabad: Tortured by in-laws, 35-year-old sets self afire. In his suicide note, he claimed that he took this step as his wife and his in-laws threatened to file false dowry case against him if did not meet their monetary requirement.
No case against wife and in-laws, after all, a man has committed suicide not a woman.
Rejected by the girl’s family, a man ends life from sea link. A 28-year-old BPO employee ended his life by jumping off the Bandra-Worli sea link. This is the third suicide in the last three months according to police.
Man commits suicide over a failed love affair. Reverse the gender and boy becomes a criminal. We are living in an anti-men society.
A 15-year-old boy hanged himself, ‘scared’ after sex chat. Boy was interviewed after the girl said she had been drunk and could not remember what happened, the boy was “shocked and scared”.
https://www.bbc.com/news/uk-wales-north-east-wales-30751316
If a boy kills self, will girlfriend be blamed?: NGO
http://www.asianage.com/mumbai/if-boy-kills-self-will-girlfriend-be-blamed-ngo-759
Husband suicide is regarded as a symbol of failure by Indian society, whereas a woman who commits suicide is pointed to as a heinous crime committed by her husband. It is a blind conviction in society that if a woman commits suicide, it is her husband and family members
who have coerced her, then the man and his whole family are considered criminal and are criminally prosecuted without proper examination. A pure false suicide note is ample proof
of suicide death for the arrest of a partner.
Case-1. Dowry charge slapped on dead man: Wife and her family register FIR a day after her husband killed himself ‘to counter abetment to suicide charge’. Though the husband is no more, proceedings under Section 498A would continue against his family members.
Case-2. Rohtak, a man committed suicide allegedly due to threats from his daughter-in-law of being implicated in a dowry case. The man was found dead with a suicide note hanging from his neck where he alleged he had to take the extreme step because of harassment he faced.
Case-3. Hapur, UP. The woman and her family registered an FIR against husband and his family members alleging that husband was mentally ill and he tortured her mentally and physically, that also said he demanded a dowry of Rs 10 lakh. The woman and her family concealed the information that the husband committed suicide.
In all the above cases, the FIR was lodged with a reason to prevent the possibility of registering a case of abetment of suicide against them.
Man commits suicide after the new bride decamps with valuables. Initially, the police refused to register a complaint as they did not believe his mother’s version. Now reverse the gender, if it was a female suicide case, the police had gone all guns and have arrested the entire family with no investigation whatsoever.
Harassed by wife thane man commits suicide. Hitesh and his wife often had quarrelled over petty issues and Anagha used to even physically abuse him. Fed up with the frequent harassment and torture by his wife, Hitesh decided to end his life,
https://www.oneindia.com/india/thane-shocker-harassed-wife-man-commits-suicide-1802814.html
State Anti-terrorism squad’s (ATS) deputy commissioner of police, Sanjay Banerjee (47), committed suicide by shooting himself in the head. Banerjee’s wife and two children along with several others witnessed him dying as he shot himself at a dining table in the Goa Portuguesa restaurant in Thane. His colleagues said he had some domestic problem and was disturbed for a couple of months. http://articles.timesofindia.indiatimes.com/2013-03-23/india/37960352_1_suicide-note-police-source-police-officerSanjay Banerjee’s wife, Sushmita, has told investigators that her husband did not commit suicide but died after his pistol went off accidentally. http://articles.timesofindia.indiatimes.com/2013-03-28/mumbai/38098652_1_suicide-motive-sushmita-data-analysis-wing How can a police officer do such a mistake in presence of his family? This again exposes the sick attitude of society considering male suicide equal to accident
Even suicide of kids, if male is equal to accident. A 15-year-old boy was found hanging from the ceiling of his house at Kapurbawdi on Saturday. The deceased, Vivek Singh, was a class IX student resides at Nalpada area in the vicinity of Kapurbawdi. The Kapurbawdi police have registered a case of accidental death. http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/thane/15-year-old-boy-found-hanging-at-residence/articleshow/29072871.cms?referral=PM if the victim had been girl than immediately a criminal case would have initiated.
Vikram Bhosale of Range Hills in Khadki allegedly committed suicide by hanging himself from a ceiling fan on November 28, 2012. Khadki police station registered a complaint filed by Vikram’s mother Sandhya only after she met Pune police commissioner Gulabrao Pol. A complaint was registered on June 15, 2013 for abetment to suicide against deceased’s wife Priyanka, her mother Aruna Jadhav and three relatives. After delay of 200 days ? Men’s Rights Association (MRA) founder and president Atit Rajpara said, “Whenever male member approaches a police station they are ridiculed stating how can wife and in-laws beat you? According to National Crime Records Bureau, more males commit suicide due to family relationships. http://www.dnaindia.com/pune/1856723/report-husband-s-suicide-woman-s-bail-plea-rejected
Siddharth Naik (Gupta), alias Mohit, aged 22, who was appearing in law examinations in Madhya Pradesh, was found dead and without clothes on the bed of his married girlfriend who also had a five-year-old son. But Gittikhadan police has registered the case as accidental death. – http://articles.timesofindia.indiatimes.com/2012-07-29/nagpur/32922907_1_sonia-gittikhadan-vir-chakra
In Man’s suicide, women never get arrested. Its double standard, see the video, Syed Makdoom’s Last Message to the World This depressed father committed suicide on 5th April 09, and left 4 suicide notes and this video recorded on his mobile. Here he clearly mentions how he was tortured by his wife & in-laws and not allowed to even see his only son whom he loved more than his life. There is also a heart rending message to the entire society towards the end… http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KrGmSI-xdTk
I can never imagine in my life that a man hanging dead by his neck can reach there by accident. But there are plenty of examples that show, this happens everyday, problems of males are neglected when they are alive and when they die their death is brushed under carpet as accident. I would appeal to the government through my blog– Any policeperson found to be misreporting male suicide as accident should immediately terminated from his job.
Most of the anti men attitude emanates from the assumption of the society that all men are criminals leading to a phenomenon called as glass jailing. In this every men is already living in a Glass jail created by the feminist in the mind of society and hence when a man dies or commits suicide that it only registers in the mind as a criminal has died so why should anyone bother.
Below is the suicide chart of male suicides of India. It is the suicide capital of the world.
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