Domestic Violence across the world is also one of the biased laws where the woman can get her in-laws in jail for domestic violence, but her in-laws cannot take any action on the domestic violence meted out to them by their daughter in law. In any society being a Male Victim of Domestic Violence means a lot of ridicule, while for women it is fashionable.
Scientifically, there are 3 kinds of Domestic Violence.
a) Men on Women Domestic Violence
b) Women on Men Domestic Violence.
c) Mutual Bidirectional Domestic Violence.
The society and feminists focus on (a) only, because of their misandrous agenda that You are not a Real Man, if you face Domestic Violence.
The Maximum Domestic Violence is (c) Mutual Bidirectional Domestic Violence. No attempts and policies are made to stop (b) or (c). For example, if a wife calls man’s mother a slut and shouts, “You bastard, you are sleeping with our sister”, what is it?
Now Feminists generally argue that women are never the oppressor. They are always the suppressed one. This just because of the fact that people have always believed so take for example the case of Warren Moon who tried to restrain his wife after she threw a candle stick at him and hit him in the crotch and surprisingly Warren was arrested for violence and not released till the wife accepted that it was she who had attacked him and her wounds were self inflicted. But even after this admission no charges were framed against Lady!!!!
It’s also ironical that feminists have successfully made people believe that, it is appropriate for a lady to slap a man but not otherwise. As seen in 2010 32-nation study where more than 51% of men and 52% of women felt that there were times when it was appropriate for a wife to slap her husband. By comparison, only 26% of men and 21% of women felt that there were times when it was appropriate for a husband to slap his wife??? That’s so much international herd mentality. http://www.dailyfinance.com/2010/01/30/a-hidden-crime-domestic-violence-against-men-is-a-growing-probl/ We do not have such case studies on large scale in India as he government is not ready to fund it and moreover Its busy garnering votes in the name of women development whereby they are spending huge amount of money through NCW and other such bodies.
Even In Wikipedia when I searched the topic of violence against men I found the painting of a Indian lady striking her husband with broom. It shows that Indian men have been suffering at the hands of females for a long time but no one is willing to accept it. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Violence_against_men
One may think that women are not as physically powerful as males so they cannot be causing violence to men, but that is just a myth. So I would like to tell you about extreme case of a professional wrestler Ric Flair being hurt by wife. He was seriously assaulted twice by his wife hence he sought police intervention which led to arrest of his wife Jacqueline. http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2165788/Wrestler-Ric-Flair-assault-wife-Jacqueline-Bains-Beems-second-time-2-years.html#ixzz1zsF2FJZI
Harvard medical school censors its own study showing 70 percent of domestic violence is committed by women against men. http://whatmenthinkofwomen.blogspot.co.uk/2015/02/harvard-study-says-70-percent-of.html
DOMESTIC VIOLENCE: ‘AS A MAN, IT’S VERY DIFFICULT TO SAY I’VE BEEN BEATEN UP’. The victims of female violence are real and their numbers are growing, yet no care and refuges for the victims.
2.6 million men will experience abuse of some kind during their lifetime. Say “No!” to stereotyping and misandry.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=Y1CfNIZKFiQ
Marriage Proposal Ends Terribly! This is not the way a woman should treat a man, this is abusive behaviour. That is an assault and battery. This just shows how Violence against Men is on the rise and women and society, in general, think this its just a Joke.
https://ca.news.yahoo.com/video/marriage-proposal-ends-terribly-134124494.html
Harassed husbands call women helpline. There is an increase in harassed husbands to women’s helpline numbers, calls received are mainly to complain about wife’s extra-marital affair with a threat of suicidal, mental torture by wife, extravagant lifestyle of wives or their demand to stay away from parents-in-law. But, unfortunately, the people/counsellors responsible don’t entertain such calls.
The reason is there are many helplines for women but no helpline, no forums or place where men can talk about their problem or get counselled. It is high time, there should be a help-line for men too.
A jealous wife has been arrested after cutting off her husband’s penis – with a pair of scissors.
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-4452902/Jealous-wife-chops-husband-s-PENIS.html
Wife for her husband to fall asleep. When he did, she then, cut off her husband’s penis with a pair of scissors. The man was rushed to the hospital where doctors were able to reattach the organ, but the wife allegedly wasn’t done. she sneaked into the hospital room to finish the job, cutting her husband’s penis off a second time. She then threw it out the window.
https://6abc.com/penis-hospital-bizarre-manhood/475383/
Violent women & battered men. Important female abusers are held accountable for their unproductive behaviours.
More than 830,000 men fall victim to domestic violence every year, which means every 37.8 seconds, somewhere in America a man is battered, according to the National Violence Against Women Survey.
https://www.webmd.com/balance/features/help-for-battered-men#1
Male domestic abuse victims ‘suffering in silence’. “They fear to appear unmanly, shame, embarrassment, and a failure to live up to masculine ideals.
https://www.bbc.com/news/uk-wales-47252756
Cruelty Against Husband in India.
http://www.legalindia.com/cruelty-against-husband-in-india/
Wife, Paramour Kill RTC Driver.
Soldier uses GoPro to prove wife’s domestic abuse. Even the protectors are in danger, the protector has to take the support of technology to prove his innocence. Whereas a women testimony is taken as gospel truth. When the government will understand this?
A man accused his wife of beating him and keeping him captive without food and complained his wife tortures him when he disobeys her. Unfortunately, there is no law to book abusive wife under domestic violence case and the police have to leave her scot-free.
Harvard medical school censors its study showing 70 per cent of domestic violence is committed by women against men.
http://whatmenthinkofwomen.blogspot.co.uk/2015/02/harvard-study-says-70-percent-of.html
Cardinals’ cheerleader calls cops on boyfriend for domestic violence. Boyfriend has video evidence that she was the one hitting him.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8ErIQ15p8j4
Fed up with his marital problems, a US-based techie flew all-the-way from San Diego to commit suicide in his homeland on Sunday. The 30-year-old, a native of Guntur, hired a cab and was found dead by the cab driver when he reached the destination, his brother-in-law’s house in Kukatpally.
When husbands are victims of domestic violence. Sat in a chair and beaten by his wife as their help watched — this is what former James Bond stuntman Eddie Kidd endured for years at the hands of his wife Samantha.
An Empowered Woman, repeatedly insulted her husband and denied him food by locking up the refrigerator. She forced him to change his residence ad eventually even take a drop from his final year MD examination, the list of harassment is endless, the woman refused to work, cook or cohabit with him, he could only drive the car if she accompanied him, she taunted him for looking older than her, suspected him of having affairs and the list goes on.
Even though the woman committed a continuous crime there was no punishment announced for her, as the Indian laws are one-sided and favour only women.
Feminists – Made for Equality or Threat to Democracy? Husband’s are beaten black & blue every day but no law to save them. This violent wife still breathes in free air and no legal actions taken against her.
https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?v=491822664231666
More than 40% of domestic violence victims are male, the report reveals. Assaults by wives and girlfriends are often ignored by police and media.
https://www.theguardian.com/society/2010/sep/05/men-victims-domestic-violence
The Madras High Court called for a “neutral and non-prejudicial” law to protect genuine victims of domestic violence, irrespective of the gender, noting that existing law contains a flaw that lends itself to easy misuse by women that women will find it hard to resist the temptation to teach a lesson to their male relatives and will file frivolous and false cases.
https://www.firstpost.com/india/neutral-law-needed-protect-victims-domestic-violence-hc-2302050.html
The spiritual site also talking of Domestic Violence on men. A man is abused by a woman every 37 seconds. Abuse of men takes many forms – physical violence, intimidation and threats; sexual, emotional, psychological, verbal and financial abuse; property damage and social isolation.
https://www.speakingtree.in/blog/domestic-abuse-of-men-this-clip-will-shock-you
Cardinals’ cheerleader calls cops on boyfriend for domestic violence. Boyfriend has video evidence that she was the one hitting him. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8ErIQ15p8j4
Domestic abuse soars in Japan, and it’s men reporting women for the violence – https://www.scmp.com/news/asia/east-asia/article/3015566/domestic-abuse-soars-japan-and-its-men-reporting-women-violence
Fed up with his marital problems, a US-based techie flew all the way from San Diego to commit suicide in his homeland on Sunday. The 30-year-old, a native of Guntur, hired a cab and was found dead by the cab driver when he reached the destination, his brother-in-law’s house in Kukatpally. https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/hyderabad/Techie-hires-cab-to-commit-suicide/articleshow/16229651.cms
Sharelle Wallace of Manatee, Fla., went to her ex-boyfriend’s home to pick up their daughter, but she had other plans. Antonio Marquis Williamstold the cops that Wallace wanted to resume dating but he did not. Wallace reportedly did not take the news too well and she violently yanked his genital. http://newsone.com/2391748/sharelle-wallace-florida-penis/
Flair is not a lone case where a physically strong man was subjected to physical abuse, similar case is that of Kieron Bell a club bouncer. He too suffered silently hoping that his wife may improve someday, but all his hopes came crashing down when his wife stabbed him in chest with a steak knife and left him to die. His heart was missed by millimeters and hence could be saved. After recovering Kieron decided not to stay silent and came out to talk so that others would not suffer like he had. http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2144305/Husband-relives-horror-moment-petite-blonde-wife-plunged-steak-knife-chest.html
Ian McNicholl too had been trapped in a terrifying violent relationship. His former partner, Michelle Williamson, squirted bleach in his eyes, forced lit cigarettes up his nose and burnt his arms with a hot iron!!! She also smashed his shoulder with a hammer with such ferocity that the handle snapped. Luckily for Ian Williamson was sentenced at Grimsby Crown Court to serve a total of 18 years in prison. http://news.sky.com/story/763540/spotlight-on-male-victims-of-domestic-abuse
An Independent News article also acknowledges the fact that men are facing domestic violence in record numbers –http://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/this-britain/record-numbers-of-men-are-being-hit-by-their-stressedout-wives-and-girlfriends-515139.html Also there is similar article by Mr. Anant Kumar on this topic http://papers.ssrn.com/sol3/papers.cfm?abstract_id=2034049
Women are ready to strike men at every instance and any whimsical reason, take for instance the case of Juanita Garcia who assaulted and broke nose of her boyfriend just for coming home late. The neighbors heard the noise and intimated police that a female was assaulting a man. She even yelled and threatened the police when she was being arrested.
Purushottam Mahajan, 44, who was locked in divorce and custody battle with his wife Pallavi for over two years, installed secret cameras at their Aarey Colony house to capture how she abused him physically in his son’s presence. In November 2009.
http://epaper.timesofindia.com/Default/Layout/Includes/MIRRORNEW/ArtWin.asp?From=Archive&Source=Page&Skin=MIRRORNEW&BaseHref=MMIR%2F2010%2F08%2F07&ViewMode=HTML&GZ=T&PageLabel=3&EntityId=Ar00300&AppName=1 The video was uploaded on YouTube by an NGO to show how law was heavily loaded against men in cases of marital discord http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1GWcgTHUeb4
There have been cases where women have turned violent at very minor thing which may not even elicit response from a mentally balanced person. For example if one person is asking other to help in cleaning home and the other one is not budging that it may lead to small argument but not a violent attack. But in case of Sandra Clinch this was reason sufficient to kill her husband by stabbing with scissors. Even after committing the crime she shamelessly told the police that she did not stab him but just threw the scissor at him which was totally wrong as found out by autopsy report. – http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2224835/Wife-49-stabbed-husband-death-dress-making-scissors-wouldnt-help-tidy-up.html another similar case is of Helen Ann Williams, from South Carolina she allegedly beat and stabbed her husband with a ceramic squirrel on Christmas Eve – just because she was furious that he returned home without beer!! http://www.independent.co.uk/news/world/americas/enraged-wife-stabs-husband-with-ceramic-squirrel-because-he-didnt-buy-beer-9030644.html
Women were also part of the Nazi movement and one such story is that of Karin Magnussen who used the eyeballs from still-living prisoners at Auschwitz for experiments on the pigmentation of the human iris!!! Though at the end of the war these kinds of females tried to under play their involvement by saying they were just cogs in the all-male machine which gave the orders. But claiming that they knew nothing of the terror and torture is absolutely unbelievable. They supported and underwrote such terror and torture. No society can claim that they give mens right and women equal priority.
I want to share that there are helpline of abused men in
US (http://dahmw.org/about-us, http://wadv.org/maleabuse.htm )
US (http://www.mensadviceline.org.uk/pages/who-we-are-advice.html)
UK (http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/uk_news/scotland/8649055.stm)
New Zealand (http://www.stuff.co.nz/national/crime/3066288/Safe-house-for-abused-men-opening)
Canada(http://www.openfile.ca/calgary/calgary/text/men%E2%80%99s-shelter-faces-closure-founder-cites-gender-bias-against-men)
India (http://yuvadastak.com/new/?p=5370).
If the women were actually as docile, as projected by feminist there would have been no need for such kind of centers. Also a center is closing down due to neglect and fund shortage. I hope the others do not meet the same fate.
In Scotland 7000 men reported abuse in just one year which shows the scale at which men are suffering but not getting any help – http://ncfm.org/chapters/la/antelope-valley-press-012206.html
A female can kill even if the husband wants to get intimate but she is not in mood, as in case of Pragya from Mumbai. She had argument with her husband on making love. During this argument she pushed him off balance and his head hit wall due to the head injury he fell unconscious. But after the scuffle, instead of worrying about her unconscious husband. She used a piece of cloth to strangle him to death. http://epaper2.mid-day.com/showtext.aspx?boxid=21815851&parentid=175368&issuedate=18062012&edd123=mumbai
Females have been equally unleashing their violent side to helpless men, like in case of a blind man Mr. Syed Mohammed and his daughter who were given protection by Delhi High court from his wife. They were being threatened by the wife and she also planned to forcibly marry their daughter. http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/delhi/Delhi-court-asks-police-to-protect-blind-man-from-ex-wife/articleshow/14433666.cms?
UK Home office reports that there are a substantial number of men who are subject to domestic violence at home. http://www.homeoffice.gov.uk/rds/pdfs04/hors276.pdf Bruised and battered husbands have been complaining for years and now the biggest research project of its kind has proved them right. When it comes to domestic confrontation, women are more violent than men. http://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/home-news/women-are-more-violent-says-study-622388.html
Feminists who have been saying that women take recourse to violence only in case of facing extreme threat should read the case of Franklin who stabbed her husband on a minor argument. That too just a day before they were about to get married!!!! According to a witness, just 8 hours prior to wedding Franklin and Brewster were about to head out to get some food when they began arguing, Franklin began swinging a knife and stabbed Brewster twice in the left side of his chest, puncturing his heart leading to his death. The guest present ther managed to subdue the lady and she was handed over to police. – http://myfox8.com/2012/08/13/bride-to-be-accused-of-killing-groom-hours-before-wedding
A participant of X Factor part of girl-group Quantro savagely attacked her ex-boyfriend William Scott Aitken. His taken in hospital of showed several cuts across his nose and cheek and the right-hand side was swollen due to a large gash due to barbaric attack. Still the lady shamelessly wanted to be part of the show and wanted support of the audience – http://www.saveservices.org/2012/11/uk-x-factor-contestant-admits-slashing-boyfriends-face
Although incidents of wives abusing husbands rarely appear in the media, many Malaysian men have fallen victim to abuse of their high-earning, dominant spouses – http://www.mid-day.com/relationships/2012/aug/130812-Earning-less-than-your-wife-can-be-hazardous-to-your-well-being.htm
It’s not just that the females are violent at home but also in social life but these matters generally go unreported as the men’s case is not registered by the police. One case I came across was of college girls who assaulted a junior student so violently that the student suffered severe damage to vocal cord and could not speak. http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/hyderabad/Ragging-Girls-vocal-cord-damaged/articleshow/15098274.cms
Females are not only physically abusive but they are equally adept in mental harassment as in case of one female who had accused her husband of being Womanizer and drunkard in as newspaper. This was shocking even to the judge who right ordered divorce based on mental cruelty. http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/india/Abusive-newspaper-ad-by-wife-wins-man-a-divorce/articleshow/14697515.cms?
Another woman who stooped to new low of mental cruelty was Naina Patel who claimed that her husband had illicit relation with his sisters!!!! When inquired as what was the basis of making such serious accusation against her husband and his sisters who are in the “noble professions of advocacy and medicine” She told she has made the statement out of her inner feeling??? This kin of behavior is highly unacceptable and the court rightly ordered divorce based on mental cruelty. http://articles.timesofindia.indiatimes.com/2012-06-16/mumbai/32268820_1_illicit-relations-mental-cruelty-allegation
Some videos of women assaulting men – http://kalyan-city.blogspot.in/2010/06/top-10-wife-beating-husband-videos-on.html
Some more cases of domestic violence by women – http://www.wemen.us/violence-against-men.html
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