Tia: Mom, you stay at home and get so many things done like Cleaning of house, Cooking, Washing the dishes, Washing clothes, Baby sitting, Keep house organized, etc. You should be paid for all this or Dad should share 50% of these works.
Mom: Tia, by that logic, I should be paying your Dad rent for staying in his house bought with his money, I should be sharing the cost of maids who do the washing and cooking. I should also pay for clothes bought for the family, the food bills, the light bills, grocery bills, the vacation trips he takes us, our medical bills etc.
I should also be sharing the cost of expenses to raise you my child, including your education and other expenses related to you.
Or I should be sharing 50% of his office workload. Which I have never done till date.
Or I should be taking up a job giving away my choice to be a house wife having time to relax, meet up with friends, etc and instead take up stressful workloads and erratic work schedule that increases my payment, but takes away my health and life years like your father, which is one of the reason women have a longer life span than men. This I would never like.
So my child one should not look at family roles with such narrow perspective dished out by hypocrites trying to destabilize the society by using bogus gender role claims.