Virgin – Good for you.
Not a virgin – Screwing around is not an achievement.
Pregnant – Enjoy your blessings.
Abortion – Kiling innocent for your reckless behavior is the worst thing to do.
Miscarriage – Sometimes life is unjust.
Scars – Can happen to anyone.
Fat / Skinny – Inner beauty and clean heart is more important.
Nobody is perfect, start from where you are with what you have and make something good for yourself and others. Start accepting responsibility for your acts, stop expecting praises for irresponsible behaviors because respect has to be commanded not demanded.